Man Up and
Dom Up ~ Expectations
by Heaven O’Shey
by Heaven O’Shey
A real Dom
will not tailor his performance and behavior to meet expectations of society,
the lifestyle, or his partner. Rather, he will strive to exceed all
expectations as he continues to learn and grow.
By the same
token, he will not simply state his expectation to his submissive, but will
patiently lead, teach, and guide her until she surpasses his expectations in
her own growth and evolution.
His
consistency, firmness, and calmness provide the secure and structured environment
necessary for her to flourish.
In such a
safe and loving atmosphere, even the most timid and insecure sub will come out
of her shell and will be all that she can be. Also, a more headstrong and
challenging sub can settle down and behave when she clearly knows what is
expected and what will and will not be tolerated.
In vanilla
life or BDSM, one must strive to assure expectations are realistic and are
always clearly communicated to one’s partner.
Excellant post.
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