Hump Day ~ Meaningless and Random Sex
by Heaven O'Shey
What makes a person want to engage in meaningless and random
sex with a stranger? Is it because of a person’s looks? Their come ons? The
thrill? The adventure? Wanting something strange?
Is having your itch scratch so important that you’ll do
anyone and everyone? Even if the partner with whom you are having sex with, has
absolutely nothing in common with you?
If someone approaches you for a one night stand, how would
you feel? We are talking about someone who is not interested in you as a person
or wants to have any kind of conversation. That person just wants you to go to
their place and have a night of sex.
Why would a person risk contracting an STD, losing a significant
other, being seen by a co-worker or family member, chance of pregnancy, and
lowering one’s self for just a night of sex. Do you think a real relationship
with someone you have taken the time to know be more meaningful and satisfying?
Sex is always better with someone you care about. It might seem thrilling (more to men than women) to have a night of sex with a stranger, but really it must be very empty.
ReplyDeleteThere must be some sort of connection either mentally or emotionally, before sex can be enjoyed physically.
Just my take.
Mary, I completely agree with you.
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