Showing posts with label chains. Show all posts
Showing posts with label chains. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Tie Me Up Tuesday ~ Safety First

Safety First
by Heaven O'Shey

Bondage can be fun, but it can be dangerous if you do not follow safety guidelines.

Some important things to remember are:

Negotiations - Know your partner’s skills, their limitations, medical history, and that there is a level of trust between you. Make sure that a safeword or hand signal is agreed upon ahead of time.

Bondage Materials - Only use quality ropes, handcuffs, chains, tapes, or other restraints specifically made for bondage. Do not use the same rope with which you have roped the cow. Also, do not use silk ties, scarves, nylons or the plastic tie wraps, as these can tighten up, cut in the skin, or restrict circulation. This is especially true when used by inexperienced people.

Safety Equipment - Before starting any bondage activity, have on hand a safety kit, which is fully equipped for emergencies. This kit should contain blunt nose EMT bandage scissors, disposable gloves, sterile bandages and tape, rubbing alcohol, peroxide, antibiotic ointment, a portable defibrillator, and an epi-pen. These are just few suggestions. You can probably think of others things based on you and partner’s needs.
A phone should be nearby to call paramedics, if needed. If using a cell, make sure you have service in the area.

Safe Practices - If you have not taken a class in the art of bondage from a professional you should refrain from extreme forms of bondage. You must be diligent in checking your partner’s restraints to assure that their circulation is not impaired. This must be done a minimum of every few minutes. Never do bondage alone, always have back up in case of an emergency. Never mix alcohol or drugs when participating in any form of bondage.

NEVER EVER leave a person that is tied up alone, even for a minute.

Monday, June 25, 2012

Tie Me Up Tuesday ~ Take Your Choice


What bondage materials do you prefer? There are so many options and each person has different taste.

Even though I am from south, I cannot stand duct tape. When it’s applied it is bad enough, but when it comes off somebody better duck and cover.

Then there is the old standby, which most people commonly associate with bondage; that is rope. There is a vast variety of types of rope from which to choose. With rope, the possibilities are endless. Some prefer their rope rough and scratchy, and others like smooth and silky. I prefer the latter.

For those who feel the need for more secure bondage, chains are the answer. The coldness, smoothness, and hardness of the chains can be as arousing as the bondage itself.

Which form of restraint helps you get your kink on?

Monday, April 23, 2012

Tie Me Up Tuesday ~ Is It Not Art?

Today's post is from Murals of Lust by Raavee and Shey, with their permission.


Is It Not Art?

by Shey


When the brush blends the paint on the canvas of a serene landscape.
When words that touch your soul flow from the ink-filled quill onto parchment.
When the harden wax lays in delicate trails along the contours of the flesh.
When chains hold her posed like a statue of Venus.
When the knots of entwined rope binds accentuating every curve.
When the redden stripes from the cane marks patterns of crisscrosses. 
Is it not art?

Murals of Lust by Raavee and Shey

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